As parents, those initial two years in your child’s life are nothing short of a thrilling adventure. While it’s an incredible journey, many would concur that it’s also quite demanding, both mentally and physically. Especially when your little one reaches the age of 2, and it suddenly feels like you’ve got a spirited whirlwind at home, no lid on the blender, causing a perpetual mess and an orchestra of noise.
But, don’t fret! Fortunately, we owe our gratitude to a gentleman named Friedrich Froebel, who conceived Kindergartens several centuries ago. Yes, that’s the place where your whirlwind without a lid will make their first pals and take their initial steps into the vast world without Mom and Dad by their side. It’s where those remarkable teachers, those almost mythical beings who somehow maintain their sanity while keeping your child and many others safe and content, will captivate your child’s heart and tend to them with unwavering devotion and commitment.
Isn’t it marvelous? Finally, you can share some of the responsibility with other adults who will offer guidance and share the care of your child with you. Yes, settling into school isn’t a cakewalk, but I assure you, it’s worth every effort.
Picture This Scenario
To truly grasp what goes on in the minds of these little tykes on their inaugural day of school, I encourage you to envision the following scenario: You’re transported to an utterly unfamiliar city with nothing more than a backpack whose contents remain a mystery to you. Everyone towers above you, and their language is a bit of a puzzle. Some even attempt to give you a hug from time to time, which you find rather intrusive and intimidating. There are other little beings like you, but they haven’t quite mastered the art of conversation, and occasionally, they try to snatch whatever you’re clutching in your tiny hand. And to top it all off, you don’t have a phone or internet access to reach out to your family for a rescue mission.
Pretty terrifying, right? Well, that’s why children typically shed tears for days when embarking on their school journey. We must be attuned to their emotions and recognize that as “okay” as it may seem to an adult, it’s far from “okay” for a child who can’t quite fathom what’s truly unfolding.
Discovering the Right Fit for Your Child
Now, if you’re pondering how to make the settling-in period easier for both you and your child, choose a school that adheres to these guiding principles:
- Parents are permitted to accompany their children during the initial days. Being present in the classroom eases the transition for the children, enabling them to walk in with happiness and tranquility, forming a positive bond with their teachers.
- Encouragement for parents to leave a personal item with the child (a cherished teddy bear from home, Mom’s scarf, Dad’s tie). This offers comfort to the child when the parents depart, serving as a reminder that they’ll return for it.
- Encourage parents to bid farewell before leaving. Yes, this might entail a few tears, but children need to become accustomed to saying goodbye. When parents simply vanish without notice, it heightens their anxiety and fuels uncertainty about their parents’ return.
- Have conversations with your child about the new school before they start. Read books about nursery and discuss all the wonderful and enjoyable activities they’ll engage in.
- Ensure your child gets enough sleep (around 12 to 14 hours) and maintain a consistent morning routine, leaving ample time for waking up, having breakfast, and getting ready.
- Understand that this experience can be upsetting for you as well. However, it’s crucial not to let your child perceive your distress about leaving them. Put on a reassuring smile, act as you normally would, and exude confidence.
Remember to stay calm – everything will turn out just fine.
Editors Note: Hopefully, these insights will aid you and your child in navigating the first month at school. Here’s to a smooth settling-in period!
